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Managing healthy conflict

Conflict is a natural part of relationships and can occur in various settings, including:

To help couples manage conflicts effectively it helps to understand the five main styles of conflict resolution:

Among these, collaboration is the most constructive approach because it:

By engaging in collaboration, individuals can:

This leads to more harmonious interactions in both personal and community settings.

In my experience as a counsellor for couples and families, I've witnessed the powerful impact of effective communication.

Here are some key points to consider:

Use "I feel, when..." Statements: Encourages expressing feelings without blame.
- Instead of: "You never listen to me."
- Try: "I feel frustrated, when you interrupt me."
Reduce Defensiveness: Embrace vulnerability, and encourage each other to share true emotions without fear of judgment.
Foster Empathy: Acknowledge each other's feelings and experiences to create a safer space to talk.
Build Stronger Connections: Empathetic communication strengthens relationships and helps both partners feel valued and understood.
Enhance Relationship Fulfillment: This practice leads to a more harmonious and fulfilling bond.

In counselling support, the main goal is to help clients manage their anxiety by:

Recognizing Anxious Thoughts: Distinguishing between facts and the stories we create in our minds.
Examining Evidence: Clients are encouraged to engage a scientific mind to find evidence for the story.
Challenging Beliefs: Helping clients identify and dispute irrational beliefs.
Fostering Curiosity: Promoting open-minded exploration of thoughts without judgment.
Considering Alternatives: Encouraging clients to look at different perspectives.

Embracing this mindset is essential because it:

By being open to change, clients learn to approach their thoughts with curiosity instead of fear, leading to:

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